Am I cold?

What a strange question. More accurately it should be: do I come across as cold? I do realise that I never speak to my cousins who are all male except for the little ones. When I visited Japan the only interaction I had with my half-Japanese cousin was when he stared at me like I was crazy when I placed my sashimi in the hot pot to cook. It's not that I detest sashimi, just that I prefer certain breeds of fish cooked. Bleh. Maybe I should smile more.